There are probably a billion different types of dildos on the market and just as many reasons someone might want to buy and use one.
But the most obvious reason is to have some fun!
There are a variety of different styles to choose from:
Standard dildo
Curved tip dildo
Textured dildo
Lifelike dildo
Strapless strap on dildo
Double ended dildo
Anal dildo
Vibrating dildo
Squirting dildo
Fetish / Fantasy dildo
Just one thing to be careful of, if you’re going to put it in your butt, it needs to have a base that’s wider than the thickest part of the dildo. Your rectum doesn’t have a point of no return the way a vagina does, so you need something to keep it anchored outside the body. You also might want to consider something smaller if you plan to use it for beginner anal play.
Some people like a realistic dildo, others don't it's really a personal preference but most realistic dildos have a pronounced head which can increase the chances of hitting the G-spot during vaginal sex. So keep that in mind.
There are two types of vibrating dildos. Dildos which have a built-in motor in the shaft and dildos which have an opening on the base that can fit a bullet vibrator.
If you buy a non-vibrating dildo and end up wishing it did vibrate, you can always add a vibrating cock ring which will send vibrations down the shaft to both the wearer and receiver.
A dildo with a big curve and bulbous tip is the best for prostate stimulation.
A short, girthy dildo with a pronounced head is usually good for G-Spot stimulation.
For double penetration you can use two separate dildos and put one in each hole or else use a double ended dildo.
It's easier to clean and less prone to bacteria etc if the dildo is made of nonporous materials which include:
- medical-grade silicone
- ABS plastic
- stainless steel
- glass
Silicone is generally the top recommendation for first-time dildo users.
Stainless steel and glass are great options for folks who:
- find penetration painful
- want to explore temperature play
- enjoy a heavier pleasure product
Top tip: You definitely want to use Lube!
You can also add a harness to your dildo for some hands free fun play with a partner.
Note that if using a dildo with a partner there is a risk of transmitting STI's if inserting in each other without cleaning it in between.
Also when finished playin with your new toy make sure to clean it properly.
We have a number of specific sex toy safe toy cleaners: Click Here